Save Your Christian Marriage


 

Dear
Friend in Christ:

You
have found this site in a search to heal your
marriage.  Your marriage is not where it should
or could be. Perhaps it is even headed for
divorce. You may be in great pain,
feeling the constant agony of a crippled
relationship. It may be that you see the writing on
the wall, or perhaps your spouse has even said
it:  your marriage is headed straight into
the ground! You may have given up all
hope. 
Maybe you are terrified, but still hopeful.

I
am here to tell you that it can change. 
In fact, I am here to tell you that your marriage can
not only be restored, but can actually become the
marriage of your dreams!  You really are
married to your soul-mate!

Do
You Recognize the 9 Early Warning
Signs of Pending Marital Disaster?

Let’s
Take A Quick Quiz About
Your MarriageAnswer
the questions below to see
where things are right now.

1)
Do you find yourself
frustrated with your
marriage, trying to make
changes, only to find you
are right back into the same
old pattern? Yes
     
No

2)
Do you or your spouse
frequently think about
getting out of the marriage? Yes
     
No

3)
Are you and your spouse
frequently engaged in an
argument, often about
nothing of importance, and
find that there are rarely
solutions? Yes
     
No

4)
Are you convinced that this
is relationship is not what
God would want, but don’t
know how to make a change
for the better? Yes
     
No

5)
Do you find yourself
arriving at the same
conclusion: “We just can’t
communicate”?? Yes
     
No

6)
Do you find yourself shocked
that you were ever attracted
to someone so different? Or
conversely, do you think the
big problem is that you are
just too much alike for it
to work? Yes
     
No

7)
Do you frequently find
yourself feeling either
unloved or disrespected? Yes
     
No

8)
Do you wonder how or if this
crazy cycle can ever be
ended? Yes
     
No

9)
Would you love to find a
solution to these problems
that would move your
relationship to a healthy,
Godly place? Yes
     
No

If
you checked any “Yes”? responses to the above
questions, it is time to really look at what
is going on in your relationship.

If
You Don’t Act Now,
You’ll Regret It Later!

It’s
just too easy to do nothing.  And then
another day, week, month, then year passes with only
worsening issues. Or a letter from an attorney
arrives!

Let’s
face it: we live in a culture that constantly calls us
away from our marriage.  In fact, we live in a
society that not only approves of divorce, it makes it
easy to get.

But
together, you and I can work to change that, saving
one marriage at a time, starting with yours! Actually,
it will be you, me, and God making that change
possible.

Listen
To A Personal Message
from Lee Baucom, founder
of
Save Your Christian
Marriage

 

Did
you know that the rate of divorce among Christians
is actually HIGHER than the general population?
I can’t begin to tell you how surprised I was to hear
this! We are a people called to be faithful, to be
forgiving, to be loving. . . and we end marriages more
often than the general public.  That trend must
stop!   Let’s agree to change this fact, you and
I working together to renew your marriage.

Divorce
and broken marriages is not God’s plan.
God’s plan was for marriage to be a lifetime.  As
I’m sure you have heard often, in Genesis 2:24, God
tells us that “for this reason, a man will leave his
father and mother and be united with his wife. 
And the two people will become one body.”?  When
we become one
body, it is a forever thing.

Where
is your relationship?  Is it where you want it to
be?  Is it where your spouse wants it to
be?  Is it where God wants it to be?

What
Are Your Options?

You
see, you really have only three choices:

OK,
I have my prejudices.  Obviously, 1) isn’t
working.  You have already decided against that,
the proof being that you found your way to this
website! And 2) isn’t much of an option for those of
us who believe God’s Word.  So, the best answer
is 3), accomplished of course, with God’s help.

If
you are like most people, you have tried to make
changes, tried to figure things out, and maybe even
saw a little improvement here and there.  But
things just seem to either drift back to the way they
were or get worse!

Do
You Make These Mistakes?

Do
you find yourself:

“Thank
God I Found You!”?

writes
Susan Johnson of
Colorado.  She says:

“I
was at the end of the line
with my marriage! 
First, we neglected our
marriage for years. 
It just withered
away.  Then one day,
I got a wake-up
call!  My husband had
cheated on me.

I
didn’t know where to turn,
but I started looking for
information on how to save
my marriage.  There
is a lot of stuff out
there that is just
psychological mumbo
jumbo.  My faith is
important to me, and I
don’t take my vows
lightly.

Dr.
Baucom, I found your site,
by the Grace of God, and
your information has
turned my marriage and my
life around.  I feel
closer to my husband than
ever before, and now God
is a part of our marriage.
We still have more to go,
but we will make it! Thank
you from the bottom of my
heart!”?
 

The
Christian’s Way To
Save Your Marriage

Let’s
face it: marriage is a challenge!  There
is no way around that.  But it is a challenge
with enormous payoffs in the end. That is
God’s plan.  Marriages teach us to be
better Christians, if we allow it. 

Unfortunately,
too many times, we take the easy way out. That has
been my frustration for many years.  I have seen
couple after couple end their marriage for the
wrong reason.

This
led me on a journey to discover what marriage was
about, from a Biblical perspective, and
how to use a person’s Christian faith to bring
the marriage back together.

My
first discovery was that modern psychology was
exacerbating the problem!  While attempting
to help, psychology was doing great harm to marriages.
In fact, the statistics were appalling. Did you know
that less than 50% of marriages that go to therapy
stay together?  And only 10-20% of
people in marital therapy report any improvement.

Imagine
that:  you go to a doctor, and he tells you that
you need surgery. But you have less than a 50/50
chance of survival. And if you do survive, only a 10
to 20% chance of improving. Who in their right mind
would go through with surgery? Yet many, many couples
end up in therapy each year.  And when therapy
doesn’t help, they decide that the marriage must
really be over.

I
knew there had to be better answers. . . and
there were, right there in my Christian beliefs. I
just had to take those beliefs, use them in real
practice, and create a practical approach that is
founded in faith.

For
over 17 years, I have worked to discover,
practice, and perfect this approach.  Now,
I am ready to offer this to you!

God
has given us the tools we need to build
strong marriages, to become “One Flesh.”?
But it takes study, discernment, and practice to bring
this approach to fruition.  You can take your
beliefs, faith, and relationship to God to build your
relationship.  I will show you how!

What
Every Christian Ought To
Know About Marriage,
And How To Save Yours

I
have spent the last couple of years taking all my
material, honing it down, polishing it off, and
creating a format that you can use to save your own
Christian marriage. All that effort is now available,
for the first time, for you. But you must act now, not
because the material won’t be here, but because your
marriage may not.

You
see, the biggest mistake most people make in the
midst of a marital crisis is to wait too long. 
People think that time might heal all wounds. (It may,
but only if you know how to help the process along!)

I
decided to make this material available to you in the
simplest, most direct, and easiest
format.  I created an ebook that contains
all the information you need in order to use your
Christian faith to save your marriage.

This
material is available to anyone reading this website.
In fact, I am making sure you can get it with absolutely
no risk to yourself or anyone else! I
promise that if you use this information, and if
you approach your
marriage prayerfully, your marriage WILL BE SAVED!

If
you are not familiar with an ebook, it is simply an
“electronic book.”? You download it to your computer,
or PDA, or Pocket PC, or an Ebook Reader.

The
advantage is that you can get the information, 24
hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year, from
anywhere in the world.  No waiting for the
book to arrive, no trips to try to find the
information.

You
only need to take action.  In fact, you
can be saving your marriage in less than 10 minutes,
even if you are computer illiterate.

You
Are About To Discover:

THE
secret to saving your marriage, starting
today.God’s
Plan for your marriage.The
Top 5 Mistakes people make when a crisis arises.The
true secrets of healthy, stable, loving
marriages.How
your Christian beliefs and faith can transform
your relationship.How
to assess the stage of your crisis (there
are 8).How
to address any stage of
a crisis and turn it around.What
to do, what to say, and what to avoid in order
to save your
marriage!Why
Christians should and could have a “leg-up”? in
dealing with problems in
your marriage.Why
“hard work”? on the relationship isn’t always the
answer.How
marriage counseling can be dangerous to your
marriage’s future.Why
“low mood therapy”? is destined for failure and how
“high mood relating”? makes the difference.How
to move beyond emotions and take
action!How
to find the North Star of your relationship,
and why it matters.Why
true intimacy is a lot closer than you think–and
how to get there!What
the TIE
Elements of Communication are, and how they
can transform your communication.How
to change the momentum of a relationship, sometimes
instantaneously!What
the Practices of Marriage are, and
how they can transform your relationship.Why
arguing is a waste of time — and the amazingly
simple secret to get around it.How
to become a team, even if you feel like
opposites.Why
power is so destructive to relationships and
how to change it.How
to deal with problems involving sex or money
— and how to bring God into those areas.How
to make radical shifts (literally, quantum leaps!)
in the relationship.Much,
much more about how to transform your
relationship, with God’s plan and help.In
short, how to have the marriage of your dreams
and prayers.

You
Don’t Need A Ph.D.
To Save Your Marriage!

These
techniques and tools are simply and easy to use!
In fact, you will be amazed on how easy
it is for you to get your marriage back on track, if
you know how.

The
secrets of a successful marriage are universal. 
I have spent the better part of 20 years discovering
them, validating them, and finding Scriptural support
for them. 

“What
A Blessing. . .”?

writes
Gregor Haynes of
Massachusetts. He says:

“My
wife of 25 years announced
a month ago that she loved
me, but was not ‘in love’
with me. She said she had
to get out.

I
didn’t know what to do,
so I prayed. Then I
decided that it was up
to me to keep this
marriage together. 
I searched the internet
and found you.

After
just a week of using your
information, I could see
my wife begin to change
before my eyes. We have a
long way to go, but I know
we will make it. From the
bottom of my heart, THANK
YOU!”?

“I
Was Doing
Everything Wrong. . .”?

writes
Becky Raeford of Georgia.
She says:

When
my husband told me he was
not happy, I was so upset,
I could hardly think
straight. As it
turns out, I did
everything wrong. 
Your list of the Top
5  things I should
not do in the middle of
a marriage crisis, I
did all 5!

My
husband was moving further
and further away!  He
was packing his bags to
move out when a friend
sent me to your site. It
must have been an angel,
because you gave me
everything I needed to
stop the process.

I
am so excited that we are
getting back on
course!  In fact, I
think the marriage
crisis may end up
being the best thing
that ever happened
to us.  Our relationship
is finally genuine,
and is under God’s
leadership.”?
 

Will
YOUR Marriage Be
The Next To Change. . . For The Better?

It
can, but it will take your action!  I often hear
from people who tell me that they have been praying
and praying to God for something to change in their
marriage, but nothing gets better.

Do
you remember the story of the man at the well of
Bethesda (John 5)? I love the story because this poor
man had been laying beside a healing pool, but is
unable to be healed because he can’t get in the
water.  Jesus asks: “do you want to be
healed?”?  Part of what is behind this question
is how desperate is the man for healing?  Does he
just say the words or does he take action?

It
is time for you to ask the question:  do you want
your marriage healed? Praying is the beginning point.
Taking action is the next. Now is the time to take
action.

“I
am ready to save my marriage. Show me how.”?

Another
day can pass without action, but those days quickly
add up to weeks, months, then years.  Are you
ready to make a change?

I
Want To Partner Directly With You To
Save Your Marriage

But
you have to take the first step. I will give you the information
you need, I will pray for you, and I
will even help you directly.  The only
thing I cannot do is get you to take action.

My
commitment is to save as many marriages as I can. That
is my calling.  But long ago, I realized that
saving marriages happens one marriage at a time. 
Now is the time for your marriage. If we work
together, you will have fulfilled your commitment to
God, and I will be fulfilling my ministry with God.

“We
Were A House Divided”?

writes
R. Johnson of Texas. 
He says:

“I
don’t know that our marriage
ever really got started. 
We struggled for years,
constantly arguing
and ‘bashing our heads
against the wall’
whenever we tried to make
a decision.

My
idea of marriage was not
what we were living. But I
didn’t know any other way!
Dr. Baucom, you showed
me the way!

Frankly,
I am amazed that things
turned around so quickly. 
My wife loves my new
approach, and I love her
new approach.  I
think we both finally
know what love is,
and more importantly, how
to show it.

God
has truly blessed us through
your information! 
Keep up the good work.”?
 

Are
you ready to have a different marriage? 
Are you ready to take the pieces God has given you
and put them together in ways that God would want? 
God does not want division and pain, but love
and support in your family. If you are ready
for that, carefully read the next section!

I
Can Help You Right Now!
If You Take Action, You Can Be
Saving Your Marriage In The Next 10 Minutes

My
ebook is now available to you!  But not only am I
making my ebook available to you, I am also providing
some crucial reports that will multiply the
effectiveness of the material.

First,
I will provide you with my ebook, Save Your
Christian Marriage.  This ebook
is the only book that contains the information I am
going to share with you.  The secrets and
strategies are not found anywhere else.  I have
been studying, testing, and developing them for
years.  Now, they are laid out for you in clear,
concise writing.

This
is not a “fluff”? book.  The chapters are short,
too-the-point, and easy-to-read.  And the ideas
are instantly applicable. You can start applying the
ideas as soon as you read them!

But
this is just the start of the information you will
receive.  I am also providing you with several
reports that will make you even more effective in
saving your marriage. Many people have told me that
any one of the resources has saved their marriage, so
I am providing these additional supports.

These
reports include:

The
Top 5 Things NOT To Do In A Marriage Crisis.
Let’s
face it: in the midst of a crisis, sometimes it is
hard to know what
to
do, and what not to do. I will tell you the 5
biggest mistakes people make, so that you can
avoid them.

The
Quick-Start Guide To Saving Your Marriage.
This guide will let you assess the crisis. You see,
there are 8 distinct stages
of a crisis, from the “we have a problem”?
point to the “marriage dissolved”? point. And each
stage requires a different intervention
strategy.  The wrong strategy at the wrong
time, and your marriage will continue to erode. 
I will help you assess and form a
strategy at each stage.

Understanding
Anger & Resentment.
This report has been praised by many people as “revolutionary,”?
“transformational,”?
and “powerful”? in dealing with these two
destructive emotions. I will give you the latest
research and theories about how to contain and rid
yourself and your spouse of these toxic emotions. 
What you will learn is likely to dispel all the
misinformation you have heard, especially from
psychology. Simply put, we have “missed the boat”?
on these emotions, and I am trying to correct this.

3
Simple Secrets To A Successful Marriage.
This report has been tested in workshop after
workshop. I lay out 3 points that can
revolutionize and transform any relationship. 
Some people have seen this as the “icing on the
cake,”? what to do when your relationship is
better.  But others have used these three
ideas to save the relationship.

Finally,
we will partner together, with me directly
assisting you!  I will be bringing my almost 20
years of experience tens of thousands of
couples  save their marriage to you through
an email consultation.  Understand, I
will be dealing with you directly. No
assistant will be answering you.  I will give you
a special email address and a way to ask me
whatever you need in order to take the information and
apply it to your unique situation.

You
will also know that I will add you to my prayer
list.  Whenever I discover someone’s
marriage is in trouble, I add them to my prayer
time.  There really will be someone caring
about what happens with your marriage, and
someone doing what I can to help you turn your
situation around. And remember, God is always
pulling for you and your marriage!

“I
am ready to get started saving my marriage! Show
me how!”?

This
Is A Method That Is Helping
Tens Of Thousands Of Couples To
Turn Their Marriage Around. . .
And It Works With Only ONE Trying!

I
know what you are thinking right now:  “this
sounds great, but my spouse really:

I’ve
heard it all before!
In fact, you must understand that the majority of
people come to me without a spouse’s support. 
I have developed strategies that work even if
only you and God want your marriage to work (I
guarantee that God is pulling for your marriage).

You
see, I have been providing guidance to couples for
years, in a number of settings. I have sat with them
in the therapy office.  I have seen them in
Sunday School classes, marriage retreats, premarital
counseling, special events, and offering help over the
phone to people around the world.

I
know that marriages can be saved.
And I know that marriages can be saved, even if it has
to start with only one person wanting to save it. YOU
can be that person.

“My
Spouse Had Given Up”?

writes
Angie T. of Oregon. She
says:

“I
had almost thrown in the
towel, too. But it
just seemed to go
against all my beliefs. 
I couldn’t find any
peace about ending
the marriage.

I
knew it would only be
me working on the
marriage, but I
figured that the worst
that happened was I would
be able to say ‘I did all
I could’

Instead,
I was able to get the
marriage restarted.
Suddenly, my husband
started joining me! I
thought your claims of
‘it only taking one’
were nuts. You made a
believer out of me!”?

YOU
CAN READ MORE LETTERS
BY CLICKING HERE
 

So,
Here Is MY Offer To YOU

Ebook:
Save Your Christian Marriage

THE
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“Top 5 Things NOT To Do In A
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Don’t
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“Dealing With Anger &
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Learn
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Consultation: 
Email Consultation With Me

This
is direct help for you. Take my
theories and techniques, and apply
them to YOUR situation.  Ask a
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My
normal hourly rate is 0.00. This
consultation often equals 1 to 2
sessions of help.

Value:
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TOTAL
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Value:
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My
normal rate for this package is .97. 
However, for right now, I am offering this entire
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This
is an incredible opportunity for the few people who
are able to purchase it at this price!

Please
understand that there are limits on my time.  In
order to give everyone the email consultation, I will
soon have to raise my rate, so that I have time to
devote my attention to your response.

A
normal counseling session with a reputable therapist
will cost you between and 0 per session. 
At a fraction of that cost, I am offering you all the
tools and information you need.  So, even if you
are one of the fortunate few that benefits from
therapy, I am shortcutting 6 months to a year of
therapy!  The total cost for that could easily be
,800 to ,200. 

If
you end in divorce, the average out-of-pocket legal
fees are between ,000 and ,000. That does not
include the emotional pain and turmoil on all
involved.  And, if you can’t save your marriage,
I will even give you your money back!  (Read
below:)

I
Give You My Word That Your
Marriage Can Be Saved.
In Fact, I Guarantee It!

That’s
right.  I actually guarantee that my
methods will save your marriage.  Give
me at least a month, and I will give you the
marriage of your dreams!

If
you will, in good faith, use the material I give you
for at least 1 month, I will guarantee you results!
You have up to 2 months to request a refund, if it
doesn’t work.

I
offer the refund this way for two reasons: first, the
methods do need some time to work. Even though
the methods are simple and direct, they need
some time to create a change. Second, studies show
that at least 85% of all “self-help”? books bought are
never read. Good advice that is not given a chance
is of little help.  So, I have designed my
book for people who are ready to take action,
not just have
a book on the nightstand!

Think
of it this way: you have absolutely nothing to
lose, and everything to gain.  If you use
my material, and nothing changes, you can ask for a
refund (One Caveat:  if you take advantage
of the email consultation, you are no longer eligible
for a refund.  This is to fairly compensate me
for my time.) If you try and succeed, you will have a
great gift:  the marriage you want!

I
am taking all the risk! 
So even if you aren’t ready to decide whether to save
your marriage or not, take a chance! Grab the
material, give it a try, and see what happens. If
nothing changes (in my experience, not likely), you
are out nothing.  The destiny of your
marriage is in your hands.

You
Don’t Have To Be A Marriage Expert
To Save Your Marriage, And You Don’t Have To Be A
Computer Genius To Get The Help!

We
have made the process as easy as possible. . . and as
safe as possible! Clickbank sells our products – they
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So,
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There, you can choose to pay by credit card, online
check, or using Paypal. This secure order form use
Secure-Socket Layer (SSL) technology to protect your
information.

After
the purchase, you will return to my website where you
will register your ebook, then you will be taken to
the download page. You will find the ebook and all the
special reports on that page.  I will tell you
EXACTLY how to access the information on that page!

That’s
it! You can start saving your marriage literally in
minutes from now!  All it takes is for you to
decide to try, to decide to take action. Go now and
begin saving your marriage. I promise you will not
regret it!

I
firmly believe that every marriage deserves a
chance.  Join me in saving your marriage
beginning today!  I look forward to hearing about
your success! Please don’t wait.

Best
wishes.

Faithfully,

P.S.:
  Remember, you can save your marriage,
using your Christian faith, and you can get started
within the next 5
minutes!

P.P.S.:
You can try it with NO RISK to you!  I am
guaranteeing your results. I am providing you
with the information you need, am offering direct help
to you, will be praying for you. . . the only
thing I can’t do is get you to take the first step!
Won’t you do that now?

“Yes,
I am ready!  Help me SAVE MY MARRIAGE!”?

 

Rev. Lee H. Baucom,
M.Div., Th.M., Ph.D.Ministry To Marriages4949 Brownsboro Rd., Suite 147
Louisville, Kentucky 40222 
United States
502-802-4823
Lee@SaveYourChristianMarriage.com

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